Category: Family

The Wedding Plan (Part 1)

“Any special requests for the wedding?” she asked. 

Without hesitation I answered, “In-N-Out truck please!” 

My fiancee at the time, gave me this weird look, “Are you serious?” she asked. 

I nodded.

Super serious. 

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Photos by Akiko Liu Photos – Website 


They say communication saves relationships. It’s true. 

So the first thing we did was to divide wedding planning responsibilities. We created a list which looked something like this:

ME: Music   

HER: Everything else

The message was clear.

I was pretty much useless. 


Photos by Akiko Liu Photos – Website 


It was impressive watching her wedding plan. 

She had a vision and she knew exactly what she wanted. 

Budget. Venue. Guest list. Catering. Color theme. Photographer. DJ. Videographer. Wedding dress. Hotel-room block. Website. Invitation. Seating chart. Flowers. Cake. Menu design and print. Photo booth. Marriage license. Rehearsal dinner. Checked. 

The best part? She made sure we had fun with the whole process. This is who I was marrying? 

How did I ever get so lucky? 

Photos by Akiko Liu Photos – Website 


An unexpected blessing came during our planning.  

In high school, Elaine and I met through a childhood friend named Eric. Thinking it would be great idea, we asked Eric to be our wedding officiant. 

“I’ll do it but you and Elaine would have go through premarital counseling. I’ll be happy to facilitate this.” he said. It was a no-brainer. We agreed. 

So Eric and his lovely wife Diana, lead us through a series of premarital counseling sessions and prepped us for the realities of marriage.  

This was our best wedding planning decision. 


Photos by Akiko Liu Photos – Website 


“Do you want the good news or bad news first?” she asked with a smirk on her face.

I gave her a weird look, “I’ll take the bad news first”, I replied. 

“They can’t do french fries or milk shakes with the truck.” she answered.  

“So what’s the good news?” 

You already know her answer. 

Photos by Akiko Liu Photos – Website 


More: “The Wedding Day (Part 2)”: CLICK HERE

More: “Taiwan: Back to the roots of love and family”: CLICK HERE

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Taiwan: Back to the roots of love and family

I looked behind me, my sister was already deep asleep.

The airplane air was dry, so dry that I couldn’t tolerate wearing contact lenses. I turned around. My fiancee, Elaine, was wearing her glasses too.

She smiled at me and asked, “Are you ready to be 25% married?” I gave her a gentle nod and said “Yes, of course.” 

14 hours later, we landed in Taiwan.

Taiwan has a special place in my heart.

When my dad passed away, my sister and I were shipped to Tainan (a city on the southwest coast of Taiwan) to live with my grandparents.

This gave my mom the opportunity to go back to school without the burden of dealing with her 2 annoying, bratty kids.

We lived in Taiwan for a total of 4 years before coming back to the States.

Being in Taiwan always gave me a feeling of nostalgia.

The food, family, the culture. Sporadic childhood memories of my sister and I returned.

Like the time when we were suspended upside down on the apex of a ghetto roller coaster for 2 hours.

It’s probably the reason we are both deathly afraid of heights.

Taiwan has it all.

Night markets. 7-Elevens. Lakes. MRT. Mopeds. Boba milk tea. Monuments. Night clubs. Endless shopping. Bullet trains. Mountains.

The food, oh my goodness, the food.

Above all, Taiwan is home to some of the friendliest people in the world.

Humble, old-school, empathetic and sincere.

On the same weekend, we witnessed our good friends Johnathan and his seraphic wife Emily tie the knot.

With the distant mountains as their backdrop, they celebrated love and life. A surprise firework show capped off their special night.

Taiwan was a part of their story too.


We decided on a wedding banquet in Taiwan because of family.

With so many important family members living in Taiwan, it just made sense.

My mom was smiling the whole night. Perhaps it was because she was surrounded by her closest childhood friends.Or maybe it was because she was happy for me. I don’t know.

But I smiled through the whole night too.

On our last day, Elaine and I went to Ximending, a popular shopping area in Taipei.

This was where I randomly ran into her in 2005. We often reminisced about that day. I would always remind her that was the day I knew I was going to marry her.

The streets of Ximending were crowded with people but we spotted a small opening. We stopped, we smiled and took a polaroid together.

Our Taiwan tradition continues.

Through her thick lenses, I saw the focus in her eyes. She was already tackling her work emails that had piled up.

I poked her stomach with my index finger, breaking her concentration. I asked her, “Are you ready to be 100% married next month?”

She gave me a gentle smile and said “Yes, of course.” Then I took off my contact lenses and closed my eyes.

12 hours later, we were back in California.

Mother Nature – Banff and Jasper National Park with My Mom

THURSDAY
She gave me this look of disapproval before she asked, “What are you listening to?” 

“Mom, this is Chance the Rapper. It’s good music.”  I said

She didn’t say anything back. 

“Well, what’s your favorite type of music mom?” I asked

She turned to me, gently smiled and said, “I like listening to musicals or songs from broadway shows. You know like Phantom of the Opera.”


FRIDAY
One quintessential water activity in Banff is canoeing on the beautiful Bow River. 

“I got a good idea, let’s rent a canoe and explore this cool river!” I said


SATURDAY
AM: 
We rented a canoe and proceeded to the gentle river route. While paddling back to the rental dock, our canoe capsized. It was an embarrassing moment yet we couldn’t stop laughing about it. 

“Maybe that was a bad idea. No more water activities on this trip.” I said

My mom, still laughing, nodded in agreement. 

PM: Fairmont Chateau Lake Louise is magical place. The color blue will never be the same. 

“Hey you and your mom should go outside and take a picture together!” Jiamee said

“You mean out there? Let’s go!” I replied

Thank you and congratulations to the newlywed Jonathan and Linda Dorsey for making this trip happen! 


SUNDAY
“It’s okay if we can’t find a place to eat. I bought 6 cup of noodles, we can just eat that.” my mom said 

“Are you serious? Who eats cup of noodles on vacation?” I said


MONDAY
My mom turned to me and said, “This is a 4 hour hike, make sure you drink water and eat a banana or else you will cramp.” 

I just smiled and nodded. I couldn’t really hear her because the soundtrack to Phantom of the Opera was blasting through the speakers. 


TUESDAY
“My leg cramped in the middle of the night.” I admitted 

“I told you to drink lots of water and eat a banana. You should sleep earlier too.” she said 


WEDNESDAY
Half-way back on our flight, my mom leaned in. 

“We didn’t finish the cup of noodles. We still have 3 of them so I brought them back. It would be such a waste to throw it away.” she revealed 

Shaking my head inside my head.

I changed the topic, “So where are we going next year?”

“I want to see Smoky Mountain National Park!” she said 

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Dr. Soong’s Japan / Taiwan Trip Recap

2017 was a crazy eventful year for me. It was capped off by a vacation to Japan and Taiwan. Here are some highlights:

 

Day 1: Pit-stop in Taipei for some Taiwanese breakfast

Day 2: Arrived in Tokyo in time for Christmas

Day 3: Our journey took us to the Jigokudani Monkey Park in Yamanouchi

Day 3: Eating dinner with tradition

Day 4: Snow day in Nagano, had to show some love to BVO

Day 4: While exploring snowy Nagano, we found ramen

Day 5: Tsukiji fish market in Tokyo

Day 5: Night life in Tokyo 

Day 6: Day trip to check out the Hakone Shrine

Day 6: Waygu Steak is a must in Japan. Oh the marbling…

Day 7: Back to Taiwan but we missed Japan so we had to get more sushi

Day 8: Celebrating 2018 at Taipei 101

Day 9: Trip to Tainan to visit my cousins and of course eat

Day 10: These two are happy because they found their Taiwan wedding venues

Day 11: Dinner with my dad’s side of the family

Day 12: Farewell Taiwan, until next time…

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Is there a way to slow down nearsighted progression?

If your child is nearsighted, you are probably wondering if there is anything you can do to prevent or help slow nearsighted progression so your child will not need stronger glasses year after year. This is a common question that parents ask in our exam room.

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At BVO, we strongly believe in implementing myopia control early on to prevent your child from developing higher levels of nearsightedness (myopia). Moderate to high levels of nearsightedness is associated with serious eye problems and disease later on in life such as early cataracts, glaucoma, and retinal detachment.

Currently, studies have shown four effective ways to control or slow down  nearsighted progression:

  • Orthokeratology (“ortho-k”) over-night contact lenses
  • Multifocal contact lenses
  • Multifocal eyeglasses
  • Atropine eye drops

Orthokeratology (“Ortho-K”)

Orthokeratology uses a specially designed hard (gas permeable) contact lenses that are worn during sleep at night to reshape and mold the cornea. By reshaping the cornea to a desired pattern, your child’s nearsighted will be temporarily corrected so he/she won’t need to wear glasses during the daytime. Several research studies around the world have proved that orthokeratology therapy help prevent or slow down nearsighted progression.

Multifocal Contact Lenses

Special multifocal contact lenses can be used to control or slow down nearsighted progression.  Multifocal contact lenses contain different prescriptions across the contact lenses compared to regular contact lenses that only have one prescription all across. The center zone of the multifocal contact lenses helps correct the full amount of nearsighted while the outer zones contain weaker prescriptions. The outer zone areas with the weaker prescriptions help relax your child’s eyes when they are doing near tasks such as reading, doing homework, playing on the iPad or the cell phone.

Multifocal Eyeglasses

Similarly to multifocal contact lenses, multifocal eyeglasses contain the different prescriptions from top to bottom. The top portion of the lens contains the full prescription and the prescription gets weaker gradually towards the bottom. When your child is doing near work and looking through the bottom of the lenses, he/she won’t have to focus (accommodate) as much. 

Atropine Eye Drops

Atropine eye drops dilate the pupil and temporarily paralyze the focusing muscle of the eyes. The eye’s focusing mechanism is completely relaxed with the use of atropine eye drops.  Atropine is not used as a first choice of method to control myopia due to the eye drop’s potential side effects: light sensitivity and blurred near vision.   

A lot of parents have asked our doctors to under-correct or prescribe less nearsightedness prescription so their children’s nearsightedness will not grow faster. It is worth noting that under-correction of nearsightedness is ineffective at slowing myopia down.  Under-correction of spectacle lenses also makes your child’s distance vision blurry, which puts your child at a disadvantage in the classroom and in life. More recently, studies have shown that more outdoor time may also reduce myopia progression. There are many ways to control myopia as discussed above, we highly recommend controlling your child’s nearsightedness as early as possible to prevent higher eye health risk in the future. 

Schedule a nearsightedness control evaluation with us today by clicking here

The content on this blog is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of qualified health providers with questions you may have regarding medical conditions

Lucille's Smokehouse BBQ

BVO Eats! – Lucille’s Smokehouse BBQ – Chino Hills, CA

Summer time is synonymous with barbecues and gatherings with family and friends, but who wants to grill when it is 100+ degrees outside? Recently, we went to Lucille’s Smokehouse BBQ  (4611 Chino Hills Pkwy, Chino Hills, CA) to enjoy great food with great company, all while escaping the heat. 
Lucille’s has an exhaustive menu, and with a group of 5, we opted for the Backyard Family Feast, which is made to feed 4. We came hungry, but still had enough left over to feed 2-3! The family menu is a great way to sample everything and to really get into the “backyard barbecue” spirit. (Nothing says summer like a large plate of grilled meats!) Everything leading up to the main events — the homemade biscuits with apple butter, fries, and peanut coleslaw — were delicious. The main events did not disappoint either — the ribs were meaty and tender, and the chicken was juicy. Others surely agree with us, as the wait time can be up to 30 minutes on weekends, so be sure to make reservations!
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Spotlight Dish: Backyard Family Feast (half BBQ chicken, half beef ribs and St. Louis ribs)
BVO Tip: Go in a group to get the most bang for your buck, and come hungry!

About BVO Eats! — Every quarter, eBVO Eats! will feature a restaurant in Chino Hills and highlight a spotlight dish. The purpose is not to provide a comprehensive review, but to introduce our readers to some of our favorite eateries in this wonderful city. We love exploring our local community — what better way of doing this than eating?

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Glasses Lens Material

In our last post, we discussed the new technology of digital lenses for high-definition vision. Today, we will discuss the different glasses lens materials available. 

There are many different types of glasses lens materials and coatings that we can proudly fit for you. Depending on your prescription, vision needs and preference, we can help select the perfect lens for your eyes. Here are the different glasses lens materials:

CR-39: This regular plastic lens is the foundation of the lens family. It is about half the weight of glass, and because of its low cost, is often considered a desired lens.

Polycarbonate: Polycarbonate is both light weight and up to 10 times more impact-resistant than CR-39 lenses. They also provide 100% protection from the sun’s harmful UV rays. Polycarbonate lens is recommended for all ages, but required for children under the age of 18.

Trivex: Trivex is similar to polycarbonate — it is thin, impact-resistant, and light weight. For patients with a mid to high prescription, we highly recommend this type of lens so it will be much more aesthetically pleasing, as it helps thin the lens even more than polycarbonate lenses. Compared with polycarbonate, trivex provides sharper optics and less distortion. 

High-Index: For patients with even higher prescription, and who might be more self-conscious about how thick their lenses are, this lens is for you! We highly recommend this type of lens so it will be more aesthetically pleasing, while still providing the comfort of even thinner lenses. This lens is the thinnest of them all!

Here is a breakdown of some lens material and coating terms: 

Type

Features & Benefits

Recommended For:

No-Glare
  • Reduces glare
  • Lenses seem “invisible”
  • Eliminate halos and ghost images
  • Night driving
  • Computer users
  • High-index lens wearers
  • Seniors
  • Refractive surgery patients
  • Public speakers
High-Index Plastic Material
  • Lighter
  • Thinner
  • Scratch-resistant

 

  • Individuals with medium to high powered prescriptions
Photochromic
  • Block UV rays
  • Automatically darken and lighten when exposed to UV light
  • People with light sensitivity
  • Children
  • Drivers
  • Outdoor activities
Polarized
  • Eliminate all types of glare
  • Enhance contrast
  • Provide maximum UV protection
  • Driving in the sun
  • Outdoor activities
Polycarbonate, Polyurethane and Trivex
  • Impact­-resistant
  • Scratch-resistant
  • Thinner
  • Lighter
  • Children
  • Sports enthusiasts
  • Safety
Progressive
  • Provide natural vision at all distances
  • Improved cosmetics
  • Individuals over 40
  • Children who need bifocals
HD
  • Customized to the wearer’s eye
  • Thin and lightweight
  • Adults, particularly those with unique problem areas

In our next post, we’ll talk about ultraviolet radiation (UV rays) and your eyes

Schedule your next eye exam with us today by clicking here

The content on this blog is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of qualified health providers with questions you may have regarding medical conditions

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BVO Eats! Wang Cho Korean BBQ

Spring has sprung and so have our appetites. Recently, we headed to Wang Cho Korean BBQ (3911 Grand Ave., Chino, CA), an all-you-can-eat Korean BBQ restaurant with a young and hip vibe. There are several large-screen televisions, which makes it the perfect place to eat, drink some beers, and catch a game. 

Korean BBQ is a fun and interactive experience, which allows you to cook a variety of meats on a table grill. At Wang Cho, you first select your meat menu — Prince, King, or Emperor — and then order anything to your heart’s desire from that menu for the next two hours. We tried the Wang Cho King, which features many of our favorite beef dishes such as marinated beef short rib and beef tongue. We also love the steamed egg and garlic butter shrimp. It’s safe to say that two hours and eleven plates later, our bellies were happy and we were ready for a nap.

Spotlight Dish: Wang Cho King AYCE Option

 

BVO Tip: Ask for a side of garlic butter and use it to cook un-marinated meat, such as the Wangcho Steak, for extra flavor.


About BVO Eats! — Every month, BVO Eats! will feature a restaurant in Chino Hills and highlight a spotlight dish. The purpose is not to provide a comprehensive review, but to introduce our readers to some of our favorite eateries in this wonderful city. We love exploring our local community — what better way of doing this than eating?

BVO Eats! – Wara Bistro

Chilly November evenings have us craving for food that warms us up instantly. This month, we checked out Wara Bistro (13788 Roswell Ave., Suite 188, Chino, CA), a Korean and Chinese hot pot restaurant with a sports bar feel. 
Hot pot is served in a metal pot at the middle of a table. Once the flavored stock is boiling, diners add fresh ingredients, such as vegetables, thinly sliced meats, seafood, and noodles, into the pot. The cooked ingredients are then dipped in a variety of sauces of your choice. Simple and delicious!
The owners’ Chinese, Korean, and American backgrounds are evident in the cuisine. We ordered calamari and the “Double Hot Pot,” which had a spicy seafood broth and a non-spicy bulgogi broth. Just in case you aren’t full from the hot pot, the menu also has traditional Chinese and Korean rice and noodle dishes.
Spotlight Dish: Double Hot Pot

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BVO Tip:  Cook the noodles in the broth toward the end of your meal. The broth will contain more flavor then, which will make your soup noodles more tasty!


About BVO Eats! — Every month, BVO Eats! will feature a restaurant in Chino Hills and highlight a spotlight dish. The purpose is not to provide a comprehensive review, but to introduce our readers to some of our favorite eateries in this wonderful city. We love exploring our local community — what better way of doing this than eating?

BVO Eats! – Oke Poke

Soaring temperatures no longer mean consuming the same uninspiring salads. Oke Poke (3277 Grand Ave. Suite L, Chino Hills, CA) offers fun and delicious poke bowls that are sure to cool you down this summer. 

Per Oke Poke’s website, “poke is a raw fish based dish that originates from the islands of Hawaii.” Think bite-sized sashimi with Japanese toppings over rice or salad and drizzled in sweet and spicy sauces.

Not a fan of raw fish? Give poke a try, and you might just change your mind. Still not ready to take the leap? They also serve shrimp and baby scallops that you may select in lieu of the raw fish. 

Try one of their bowls or customize your own. We love getting creative with making our own. There is a variety of bases, toppings, fishes, and sauces to choose from, which make each experience fun and unique. 

Spotlight Dish:  Make Your Own: Salmon, Spicy Tuna, and Albacore Bowl

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BVO Tip:  Don’t be afraid to mix the sauces. We love experimenting with various combinations to give each bowl an unique taste. Our current favorite is Oke Sesame, Oke Sauce, with a bit of Heat.


About BVO Eats! — Every month, BVO Eats! will feature a restaurant in Chino Hills and highlight a spotlight dish. The purpose is not to provide a comprehensive review, but to introduce our readers to some of our favorite eateries in this wonderful city. We love exploring our local community — what better way of doing this than eating?

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